Imagine if you’re on a road trip with your family and it just so happens that everyone’s phone batteries die. 

You’re all super hungry but you aren’t familiar with the area you’re in. 

You then come across two restaurants that look decent and clean but aren’t sure which one will satisfy everyone’s cravings. 

So like most people would do, you look at the parking lots and see that the restaurant on the left has 2 cars in the lot and the lot on the right has 10 cars. 

Which one would you pick?

Probably the one with more cars in the lot right?

Jeff Walker covers this strategy called social proof called Launch - How to sell almost anything online, build a business you love, and live the life of your dreams.

What’s interesting is that word-of-mouth and referrals work in the same way.

Rather than sending prospective clients to a web page, you have living and breathing ambassadors that are willing to spread the word of your good work.

Most of the time, they don’t realize they are doing it because it just feels right to talk about the astonishing experience they had with you.

What if a close friend that you’ve known for a while, you trust completely, and you really respect, said to you…

“Hey! You have to try this thing I did!”

You’d probably be interested, get curious, and take them up on their suggestion. 

I was recently asked by a referral, “So, how do you help people?”

Rather than trying to explain what I do, I shared with him an email my client of 2 years wrote to me when I asked him; What is the value of coaching for you?

“We all face many difficult circumstances in life. We all have limiting beliefs and issues from our childhood that we’re ingrained into us that sprout into our adulthood, trifling us from reaching our full potential. It can be hard to deal with life and its ups and downs and also battle these limiting beliefs and issues we have alone. Many times we aren't even aware of these issues we have.

Having a coach, a trained and knowledgeable professional, observe and help guide you through these issues, bring awareness to them, and be behind you as you overcome these many challenges of life is invaluable. I think everyone should have a coach. Helping you cultivate awareness, understand thoughts, feelings, and obtain the results you want. Help you take action and make sure you are consistently taking the right actions. Helping you get back on track when you do inevitably fall off track. 

There is no magic pill. It's like working out. You need to consistently work. A coach will help you find what to work on consistently and help you uncover those intrinsic motivators to build agency and take full control of your life.

Thank you Alex for all of this! I am truly grateful for you in my life. No words can explain or express this. May God bless you more than you ever wanted.” - Khalid S.

So if you’ve been growing your business and you’re not already collecting testimonials… it’s not too late!

Referrals come as a byproduct of great service, and client astonishment.

If you want to have people pick you over your competitors, try building that social proof.

This particular client has a way with words - but not everyone does. 

If you want to know my foolproof system for creating amazing testimonials every time, let’s chat and I’ll share with you my Testimonial Generator.

In your corner,

Alex 

P.S. Here are 4 other ways I can help you increase your levels of happiness, peace, and freedom as a creator of your best life;

1. Join Project Elevate – for 3 months of capacity expansion, led personally by me. Plus, receive a complimentary ticket to the next Alexander Lin Intensive.

2. Alexander Lin Intensive – The flagship program where you get to unplug, slow down, and reconnect with your reasons for being. It’s an opportunity to spend 3 days with me and the members of my community which could potentially become your life-changing mastermind.

3. Join Kingsmen, the Private Men’s Network. It’s a life-changing brotherhood that makes your success their mission. You get weekly live group calls with me and other leaders—and you join our Private Facebook Group to access personalized guidance and consulting, so you don’t get lost and you stay out of confusion. Usually, the difficult part is the aspect of overcoming fear and building trust. This isn't an issue here! Kingsmen is for anybody interested in what it means to be a leader and take control of their own destiny. 

4. Private Coaching is where you bring your desires, I bring my jetpack. Together, we’ll build that ship made of ‘impossible goals’, get them so high off the ground, and have you look back with wonders of why you were thinking so small when we started. It can be challenging, powerful, and transformational. If you’re interested in reserving a future spot, go here.